Physical Game During Daytime And On The Street

In this article I want to talk to you about physical escalation in the daytime and on the street. Most guys are afraid of being physical in these situations. It seems weird, socially miscalibrated and inappropriate to touch strangers on the street. Since we were kids our parents and society told us not to talk to and touch strangers. Although our parents and society had no bad intentions... 

That is so wrong when it comes to attracting women!

Physical game is a huge part of creating attraction. If you don’t feel comfortable being physical with girls in clubs and in the daytime, your game simply sucks. Attraction is not created by words. Yes, you can be funny, entertaining, interesting and challenging just by talking. That’s true. But it is near to impossible to create attraction without being physical. If you don’t touch the girl early in the interaction, you are setting the frame of a friendship and not of a sexual relationship. Physical game is crucial in order to relate to her as a male to a female. It’s what creates the sexual vibe of the intereaction... and thus generates attraction.

But what is physical escalation and how is it done? Basically you just have to be physical with the girl in a confident and dominant way. Girls hate nothing more than guys touching them in a non-confident way. It’s creepy as hell.

So it’s crucial to be confident and dominant while escalating. No testing the waters. The law of state transference applies to physical game: What you feel, she feels! If you feel creepy and weird while escalating, she will feel the same way. But if you feel good, entitled and amused while escalating physically, she will just love it.

Here’s what makes physical game work:

·         Dominance – No testing the waters, no holding back, no fear of escalating

·         Immediacy – Get physical as soon as possible, start within under one minute

·         State – Feeling comfortable, entitled and natural and having no fear

But how should you touch girls that you’ve just met? Generally it’s a good rule to start with low intensity moves and climb up the escalation ladder...

Here are some moves you can use and perform in this order:  

Handshake, high five, spinning, hug, lifting (+ spinning), claw, make out

Most people might think these physical game moves are only good for clubs. But you can actually perform most of these moves during daytime and on the street. All you have to do is calibrate. If she doesn’t feel comfortable and you do these moves, you will creep out the girl. During daytime the girl won’t be in a social mode, thus not expecting any physicality. You have to slowly climb up the ladder and always keep an eye on her comfort levels during the daytime and on the street: Start with a handshake and introduce yourself, then give her a high five for saying something cool during the interaction. It doesnt’t really have to be cool, just use anything as an excuse to high five her. After that go for a hug. When you go for the hug and she complies, a window of new opportunities openes: From here you can now proceed to lifting and spinning her. When you’re hugging her and she’s locked into your arms, you can basically do whatever you want. She has to comply with your lifting and spinning. She’s more or less „defenseless“. So now you can go for it…

After you have lifted and spinned her, the frame and energy of the interaction is set. You’re relating to her as a male to a female and not as a friend to a friend. You can keep on escalating and try to go for a make out at some point. However, if the interaction is going well and you’ve escalated physically, you should try to go on an instant date with her and then move things on from there.

One last thing, physical game doesn’t have to be smooth and perfectly calibrated in order for it to work. Don’t freak out if you get resistance. Just take a step back and reinitialize the physical escalation again.

If you want to go deeper down the rabbit hole and learn more about physical game, grab yourself a copy of The Physical Game by Osvaldo Garcia. It's the best and most down to earth resource I know on this topic.

I learned all of my physical game from him...